Im so pissed at those who discuss other people's failure with literally everyone in their sad miserable lifes as "lessons to be learnt" like fuck off. Your successful and failing-free life looks more fucked up than the "worse life" of others that you were talking about. For those who just experienced failures or anything like that, let me tell you something; just because others see your failure as something awful, your life is precious and you will only get to live it once. So whatever the fuck happens, just be still, dont back down, dont give up and give ur self a pat on the head and say "you did a very good job, and you did tried your best. Chin up and try to do better next time" because those fuckers can say anything they want but they aint worthy enough to be in your mind. I would say its okay to fail, its okay to not get something that you worked your asses off to achieve, because someday once you get it (which im sure you will), youre gonna look back at your journey and be thankful at how far you managed to go despite all the obstacles that were dragging you down throughout your life. I did experienced failure in which made me thinking if i would be able to achieve anything that i was praying for but thank god i managed to move forward and not got stucked inside the failures that i was so afraid of. I remember a quote from a movie (but i dont remember which movie) that tells me an analogy about being strong. It goes something like; being strong is like being a tree. It might look boring and can easily get chopped off, but when something is heading towards them, they gonna say "nope. this is MY spot, im not afraid of you and im not gonna move to let you have your way. So you are the one who needs to move coz im not going nowhere.. hmm hmm *shaking its head* *insert smirking emoji + middle finger emoji*"
